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TOP TIPS and fantasies of returning home
Give yourself time to adjust. Don’t forget to move forward. Take your time in making decisions about what’s next and seek advice from those you trust.
• Identify your expectation. This can help you avoid a lot of challenges and grief.
• Ask if expectation are realistic and where they come from.
• Accept what expectation & feelings you should accept, what expectation that need to be remolded or walk into grief.
• Expect that most people you speak to will have no insight or empathy to situations or stories you describe so it’s hard for them to respond appropriately.
• Some people may not have even realized you were away!
• Be ready with three responses to the tough, ‘So, how was your trip?’ question: 1. Two sentences for those who are asking out of politeness. 2. Two minutes for those who are asking because they want to know but don’t want a full run down.
3. Two cups of tea for those precious friends or family who give you their ear and let you talk.
• You need to remember that the type 3 person is rare so treasure them!
• Don’t be surprised or offended if someone changes the topic back to their lives and mundane details about curtains or paint samples when you’ve been sharing a significant story. Don’t be too critical of those who do this. Save your two cups of tea stories for those who you know will listen but also make sure you listen to them.
2. PEOPLE ARE DYING TO HEAR ABOUT MY TRIP! Some people would rather die than hear about your trip! Very few people want all the details and schedules. Prepare a specific story about a person or lesson learned. Share this clearly and briefly. Leave them wanting more.
1. I WILL BE GLAD TO BE HOME! Of course, there are things you will have missed. However, you may experience some re-entry adjustment or low mood. Recognise this is a part of re-entry.
Don’t miss out your next Mercy Ships Swiss Family get together!
A special time to shares unforgettable memories of your time on board with alumni, see old friends and meet new ones, share possible challenges of your return home, offer tips to future crew members who are about to board, eat good food and have fun.
More information will be sent in due time to your personal email address. Check your personal emails regularly.